Sometimes we need to admit that two people in love can walk in different directions. I learned this in my current relationship, where my boyfriend is typically ambitious and high-achieving. As far as I know, his career is central to his life, and he can put other things aside: relationships, family, health, hobbies, etc. I, on the other hand, am haunted by scepticism about traditional values in life, self-discipline, wealth, fame, respect. I try to break out of the trap now a
